The Reason People Hold Grudges
The phrase "mommy didn't love me enough" has been keeping the therapy business alive since day one. And guess what? We just found out about a NEW way your mom screwed you up!
According to a study at the University of Minnesota, people who didn't feel a secure relationship with their mother when they were very young are more likely to HOLD GRUDGES than people who had a better bond with their mom.
The study found that people who had tight bonds with their mother are better at controlling their negative emotions, and being reasonable during an argument.